I’m shocked and saddened.
Fifteen years ago, Carlos and I met at Adobe. I soon found out that he was quite the character and loved playing practical jokes. He also had heart. What I admired about him was his uncanny ability to make people around him feel special.
Later, at Macromedia, we caused a bit of a kerfuffle in an emperor has no clothes sort of way. One of our favorite inside jokes was to randomly make a sheep noise to caricature a certain VP.
It’s that irreverence that drove us to do this startup together. At our best, we were a force to be reckoned with. I would build the product and technology; Carlos would get the word out and nurture the community. Unfortunately, what followed was a long, dramatic, and complicated series of events, and we ultimately went different directions. The entire story is known only to a couple of people, but if it had been about other people, I’m sure Carlos would have relished telling it.
And that’s the one thing I think everyone who knew Carlos would agree on. He loved telling a good story, and even more so, being part of an unforgettable story.
Well I can’t think of a better way to honor his memory than to share one. I’m sure Carlos would have told it better, but here goes:
A few years before Corona, we were working with some folks in LA on a business around digital broadcasting of live music concerts. One afternoon, after getting off the phone, Carlos excitedly told us we needed to fly to LA that evening and “come meet the Crüe”, as in the Mötley Crüe!
Suddenly, we’re rushing to the airport to get on the very next flight to LA, excitedly anticipating meeting the famed band at the Rainbow Bar. When we get to the table, we see three guys. Two of them were associates and the third, it turns out, is a former WWF wrestler — but no Crüe!
It slowly dawns on us that it wasn’t the Crüe we were supposed to meet. It was the “crew”, as in the business team. Later that evening, we were rewarded with a consolation prize when we bumped into a very drunk Tom Arnold.
For those who spent a lot of time with Carlos, this was classic — spur of the moment, life to the fullest, and a touch of Hollywood.
Rest in peace Carlos; you made your dent!