Well, for what you want, emitters actually don’t seem like the proper solution. Emitters are ideal for beautiful visual effects like fires, flames, weather, etc. If you check out the sample I mentioned, you’ll see what I mean.
In your case, I would suggest using the LiquidFun approach which is physics-based. This lets you create physical particles which blend and meld together like water and other viscous substances… but they are not to be confused with “particles” from emitters (they are two very unique approaches).
There are demos of this too, if you’re interested in learning more.
Brent